Posts in Tango Psychology
Is Argentine Tango a Dance for Couples or Singles?

The history of tango itself is a testament to the dance’s power to draw in those searching for a romantic connection or companionship — after all, tango began with the lovesick porteños who always seem to be wooing women.

Despite the melancholy and unrequited affections narrated in its songs, Argentine tango remains characterized by its ability to draw people together… and also pull them apart.

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Marriage Counseling and Argentine Tango: If Your Marriage Is Falling Apart, Can Tango Help?

From the get-go, it’s easy to see how Argentine tango as dance may be a vehicle for repairing marital breakdowns. The dance’s sensual nature and its need for close physical contact can be the first step in bringing couples together into a loving embrace that lasts even after they’ve left the dance floor.

The physical contact that may be absent in the home or in the bedroom can be safely and respectfully re-established through tango, as the dance becomes a space in which trust and cooperation are encouraged.

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Alejandra Mantiñan: Controversial Legend of Argentine Tango

One specific thing that perhaps separates Alejandra Mantiñan from other famous tango dancers is her background in medicine.

This in itself isn’t a source of controversy. It was the way Alejandra applied her knowledge in medicine to tango that gained both admirers and detractors.

Alejandra Mantiñan introduced her own scientific method of dancing tango, which can be seen as one of the ways that she has challenged the status quo.

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The Transformative Power of Tango: Physical, Mental Health, and Educational Benefits

Tango facilitates a safe environment for connection and communication while encouraging physical exercise, promoting STEM learning, and helping to manage the stress epidemic.

Tango, for one, is far from the monotony of the treadmill, making it a more sustainable form of exercise and ideal for weight management across generations. It provides a total body workout – enhancing cardiovascular conditioning, increasing flexibility, and building muscle strength and tone, not to mention stronger bones and reduced risk of osteoporosis.

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How To Get Invited To Dance during Milonga - 10 Tips

Brought up in a culture that teaches women to be restrained, to keep a distance from men, to avoid intimacy, to not give men ideas, to let men chase you and not submit yourself too easily, this kind of attitude is understandable. But if you act like a newbie at the milonga, your chances of being invited are slim..

To increase one’s chances of getting an invitation in a milonga, one must be aware of what these unwritten rules are. Followers shall by considering the 10 tips discussed in this article.

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Why Women Love Dancing and Why Specifically Tango

Aesthetically speaking, tango is a beautiful dance. Not only is this evident in how tangueros and tangueras dress, but in the movements themselves.

Elegance and sophistication are exhibited by both partners. Thus, for tango to be beautiful, the dancers must also feel beautiful — which is what many women tend to feel, whether they lead or follow.

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Is Tango an Addiction? - Argentine Tango debates

When asked about why they are addicted to Tango, self-proclaimed Tango addicts have a myriad of intriguing responses. Some answered that it was because of the interaction with the opposite sex. Another referred to Tango as his "quasi-religion" and described it as the artistic expression and freedom he needed to cope with all the order and humdrum of his daily life. One even compared Tango to fishing as a form of meditation.

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All You Have To Know About La Cumparsita - the most famous argentine tango

La Cumparsita is widely viewed as the anthem of tango music. Originally composed by Gerardo Hernan Matos Rodriguez in 1917, the 100th anniversary of La Cumparsita was marked by tango concerts and all sorts of tributes in 2017.

Because of its ability to tug at the heartstrings, whether one encounters the original or revised lyrics, it would not be surprising at all if La Cumparsita remains popular for another hundred years or more.

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Tangasm - Have You Had One?

Perhaps, it is the very nature of tango as an improvisational dance that fosters this idea that it is a sensual — even sexual — experience. The freedom with which we can move while dancing the tango is the kind of liberation that is absent in the daily lives of many people, especially to those whose careers demand intense compartmentalization of time and activities.

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Smart Leadership Is About Knowing How To Make Your Team Align With Your Goals. Sounds Like Tango? Well — It Is!

The team (in the case of Argentine Tango - the couple) needs to fully understand the overarching strategy. WHERE are we going and WHAT are we trying to achieve. Then the HOW becomes the tactic, a small step that is easy to execute once understood and agreed upon the common goal.

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“Por Una Cabeza” - Why Everyone Dances To This Song and Why You Might Not Want To

Looking at the translation, “Por Una Cabeza” is a song that compares one’s addiction to horse racing to an addiction to women. It talks about how the man, from whom the song’s perspective is based, is constantly beleaguered by his enchantment of different women whose passing glances and momentary displays of supposed affection are enough to make him swoon and “gamble” away his love.

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Relationships and Tango - How Tango Helps To Strengthen or Abandon Relationship

The togetherness is what’s the most visible in a great couple. It’s not that we become one. But we are both working towards the same goal creating the perception of oneness. We can never become one, as we are two independent people.

But the constant support, never-ending compensations for each other tiny mistakes - makes the dance glorious. You made a mistake together and you feel glorious because often the mistake leads to the discovery of a new path, new way, new purpose.

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Reclaiming Femininity: The Female Brain and Art of Tango

Tango is a dance of giving and taking. It is not just about the leader. It is also not just about the follower. Tango encourages partnership and forging connections through dance. He brings out her femininity while she brings out his masculinity. The dance serves to express both the masculine and feminine arts found in every person.

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Femininity and Argentine Tango - Clichés of Feminism

Social inequality, the injustice that feminism is working to change, has led to many negative female stereotypes and clichés. One way to combat these inaccurate and limiting ideals of femininity is to reclaim them through something powerful, beautiful, and expressive — like the Argentine Tango.

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Tango’s Closed Embrace: An Introverted Dance

Tango’s nature is reverent, subdued, and structured. It allows dancers to focus on internalizing one’s experience of the music, engaging in the meditation of movement, and concentrating on their partnership rather than vying for attention. This sharply contrasts with Salsa, which is characterized by periods of solo dancing and moments where partners can show off their footwork - it's an extrovert’s dance - loud and exciting, and demanding personal expression.

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